After ten agonizing minutes of listening to his inflated ego, I had enough, and
bluntly asked the stranger to leave.
He was taken aback and challenged me. I had neither the patience nor energy to engage with this
person. But I realized I might
have been stepping on my friend’s toes, so I stepped aside. They both left the restaurant to
continue what they had started. Her
cousin went to observe them, making sure she didn’t get in his car. I just sat by myself, waiting for
something to happen or someone to return.
Our dinner showed up and I picked at the fries wondering what was
happening. The concerned cousin
returned, informing me they were just out front talking. We both agreed the stranger gave us the
creeps and worried our friend was making a mistake. She briefly returned, only to tell us she was going to the
first restaurant to retrieve her phone inadvertently left behind. The guy was going to walk with her. Against her cousin’s impassioned
wishes, she left. I said very
little. She’s an adult and can
make her own choices. Her cousin couldn’t
handle the worry, so he left money for the bill and went to follow them.
Girl Afraid is a blog about living my life openly as a transgender woman. I hope to discover more about who I am by writing and sharing my story. The thoughts and opinions are my own, experienced from a unique point of view. All I'm offering is my version of the truth, nothing more. Thanks for reading. ♥Gia
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Flammable part 2
Before I knew it, I was sitting in a cozy and trendy
restaurant in Portland. With the
wig drama in the past, the night off to a fabulous start. My new friends and I were having fun,
telling stories, enjoying a few drinks, and getting to know each other. After a while we decided to try a new
place for food, more drinks, and to stretch the evening. At a nearby grill we huddled together,
like old friends, waiting for a both to open, and within minutes, we were
set. We continued to enjoy each
other’s company and ordered dinner.
Suddenly, a stranger was sitting opposite me, joining us in our
booth. That was odd. He was eager, and boastfully talked a
lot as he nursed a Corona Light.
It was apparent from the moment he crashed our small party, his interest
in my attractive friend, but I felt uncomfortable, and could tell that my
friend’s cousin had a similar felling.
Left alone for the second time, I sat in the booth sipping
coffee and contemplated if I had misinterpreted something, or maybe it was just
me? While the attention of the restaurant
staff was sweet, I felt sad. This
was new territory for me, and I wasn’t prepared for it. With hope that I wouldn’t be abandoned, I waited for my
friend to return. But would I
understand if she didn’t come back?
We both were looking for new beginnings, how could I blame her? After an eternity, which was probably
only fifteen minutes, she was standing there, next to the table. We sat and had a short and polite
conversation. After paying the
bill we left together with leftovers in hand. Mostly in silence, my friend and I walked the six cold
January blocks back to our cars. Before
parting, we agreed to connect again, but with clearer
expectations, and after a hug and kiss, we said goodnight. Sometime during the evening my roommate
had left a message on my phone, her flight was delayed and wouldn’t be arriving
until 2am. It was only 10:30. What if date you imagined turned into the
night that would never end?
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Gia! Thank you for part 2...feeling sad was not my hope for your night but unfortunately, awkward moments (and inconsiderate humans)are all to common. What sucks more is when that was not part of your expectations.
ReplyDeleteAs far as burning your hair, at 19 I went on a date and decided fake nails would be a good look. He offered me a cigarette, I accepted and let him light it for me...only to have 4 of the plastic nails catch on fire! While other patrons gasped, I casually stuck my hand in ice water on the bar. The result was a rancid smell, unwanted attention, a blackened mangled manicure and humiliation. Needless to say, I never saw him again but more importantly - I learned how flammable beauty can be! And I've never tried fake nails again! :)
Keep sharing! ~ Lauren
Thanks for your kind comments. I appreciate your feedback and your own story of flammable beauty. I never thought about nails, I'll be careful around the fireplace. Thanks for reading!
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Gia I think you were right to be concerned about the creepy table-crasher. Yikes. Scary. I'm glad she was okay.
ReplyDeleteAnd, on the subject of wigs, a friend of mine has cancer and recently purchased a wig from an 80+ year old wig maker. She uses real hair. I thought of you because she also makes one where the hair attaches to a baseball cap--perfect for running. Very, very expensive however. The wig maker is located in Brookline I think. I can get details for you but $800 for a wig (even if it gives you Gweneth Paltrow hair) might be more of a goal that an immediate reality. Lemme know. I'll hunt down the name from my pal.
If you buy a wig from the Brookline lady, you can come to my house and we can jog over to pick it up -- then jog home with you in the wig!
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